Wednesday, July 2, 2008

EPISODE 9: " THE RETORT"

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So I "The Watcher", was surfing the web and had to pass by my heroines at 718Bodega and I saw a interesting post about men and women dating. If i am getting the basic premise of her argument Kai(Rogue) is telling the world that their is a misconception between men and women in the dating world. "if a female dates a number of guys she is considered promiscuous. However if a dude explores his options, trying to get a taste of what's out there than he's a player. This society has shaped us to think that women must remain innocent and pure, therefore putting us into a role of only being with one man." I would have to retort in what she's saying in that, its not a question of purity that needs to remain in women, rather a change in your process in how you go about dating more than one guy. See when men "openly" date more than one female 9 times out of ten all parties are informed. To much juggling makes men irritated (forgetting about you on the low ass niggas and the wack dudes). Most of the time she knows that Guy A is dating 1, 2, 3, girls. See what I've come to find out is that many females aren't up front about their dating. They will have a primary and then like 6 other dudes to back them up when all fails. But the problem is all of this guys think they are the main guy and treat them like so. See in my travels to different dimensions I've found that women are very emotional creatures and can't fully commit themselves to open dating, friendship without getting emotions involved. And if their emotions are not involved then they are very cold cold females who at heart are very lonely. See when heroes date openly they do just that and don't get hung on women to fast. That keeps everything calm and collect. See dudes most likely date more than one girl for sexual purposes only. Women use dating as a template to formulate a plan on who is the perfect guy for them and to create a wider social circle. It takes so much emotion to do this. On the other hand, because women have this emotional attribute at a higher skill level than men, most women are catching hard body feeling and having mega sex with these dudes!!! ALL OF THESE DUDES!!! Lets not forget that some of these men are homosexuals, married, in a relationship or something else. And we wonder why 66% of black women have some form of STD. I guess my advice would be if women were more open about who and how they are dating, men can structure how they decide to deal with you a little better. See in reality you all really want to keep that ideology, that facade of pureness and virgin eyes, because at the end of the day most women want to get married and have kids. And depending on how dedicated her life was to dating and sexing multiple guys will have an effect on how a man will view her.

JUST A RETORT:

Yatta Mayjour...that means "I DO THAT MAJOR"

1 comment:

BODEGA said...

I agree with some of what your saying...I'll have a response manana!